Being A Good Neighbor
One of the challenges of living in a neighborhood community is
making the transition from life in the residence hall to integration
within a non-University or an off-campus neighborhood setting. Many
behaviors that are acceptable in on-campus facilities are not
acceptable in residential neighborhoods. Here are a few suggestions on
how to be a good neighbor and member of your community:
- Say hello and get to know your neighbors
Opening the
lines of communication makes it easier to talk about those petty
annoyances before they become big problems. As you see them in the
halls, laundry room, lobby, in front of the building/houses, or by the
mailboxes, smile and say hello. If they appear to be receptive,
introduce yourself. - Watch out for the safety of your community
If you
observe any suspicious behavior in your community, report it to the
Metropolitan Police Department. Watch and listen for unusual things
such as loud noises or suspicious or unknown people loitering. - Understand and follow the local community and landlord rules
Many
communities have rules for things like where you can park, where your
pet can be, when certain facilities are open, quiet hours, trash
pickup, and more. These should all be spelled out either in your lease
or in a supplemental set of rules and regulations. Know them and follow
them. Your neighbors and landlord will thank you. - Keep your noise and belongings within your own space
Talking
on mobile phones in community hallways, leaving trash or personal items
in public areas, or loud, late-night congregations in common areas may
be a way of life in the residence hall setting, but may be disturbing
to others and frowned upon in off-campus residential areas. Be
conscience of your volume and your neighbors and landlord will thank
you. - Observe reasonable hours for noisy activities
Vacuuming,
hanging pictures, moving heavy furniture. All these activities produce
noise which can travel beyond the walls of your apartment/house into
shared walls. Make every effort to restrict these activities to daytime
hours. Check your lease/rental regulations and local regulations, and
follow any specified quiet hours. - Treat your neighbors' children with respect
Watch
your words and behavior around neighborhood children and remember they
may follow the example you set. Understand that your neighbors'
children have a right to be there, and that they are, after all,
children. Treating neighborhood children with respect can go a long way
to maintaining and improving your rapport with your neighbors. - Take pride in your environment by keeping visible areas neat and tidy
Keeping
your yard, entrances, balconies, and walkways neat and tidy, and
putting covered plastic garbage cans and recycling bins curbside no
earlier than the morning of pick up keeps everyone's home looking
appealing. - Understand that not everyone loves your pet like you do
If
your lease allows pets, be aware of the rules concerning where they can
be when they are outside your apartment or house. Keep your pet on a
leash unless it is in your backyard or inside your home. Don't let your
dog roam free in the neighborhood or shared yard and don't let your
parrot practice his opera while you're at work. When walking your dog,
don't let them run on the lawns of others. Walk them by the side of the
road and at all times be prepared to clean up after your pet. Be aware
of any noise your pet(s) may make while you are at work or school. Ask
a neighbor who is home during the day about it. And if your landlord
doesn't allow pets, don't try to get away with it. - Don't let your right to party overshadow your responsibility to your neighbors
Let
them know ahead of time when the party will be happening so that they
can prepare. It is your responsibility as host to ensure your guests
understand the rules of respect for your neighborhood - including where
it is okay to park - and that they remain inside your apartment/home
(or within your own personal area outside) during the party. And
remember: even when you're having a party, local regulation for quiet
hours apply.
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